Building a positive relationship with your child

The relationship you build with your child will lay the foundation for their future success. Children who have positive relationships with their parents are more likely to do well in school, have strong mental and emotional health and have successful adult relationships.

How to build a positive relationship with your child

A positive parent–child relationship is built on love, trust, respect and communication. In such a relationship, your child will feel loved and supported while you’ll feel proud and fulfilled. It’s a two-way street, with both you and your child contributing to the relationship.

Here are five ways to develop a positive relationship with your child.

1. Spend time together doing things your child enjoys

This is a great way to bond and show your child you care about their interests. It’s also an opportunity for you to learn more about your child and what makes them tick.

2. Communicate openly and honestly with your child

This includes both listening and speaking. When you communicate effectively with your child, it builds trust and respect.

3. Be supportive and understanding, especially during tough times

Children need to know that they can rely on their parents even when things are tough. This builds a lifelong foundation of trust.

Be present in your child’s life

This means being involved in their childcare or kindergarten experience and spending quality time together as a family.

4. Teach your child how to express their emotions in healthy ways

This is an important life skills. It’s also a great way to bond with your child and show them that you understand their feelings.

The importance of quality time together

Quality time is time you spend focused and present with your child. It’s an opportunity to connect with them on a deeper level and create lasting memories.

Spend quality time with your child by:

• Playing together.
• Reading together.
• Talking and listening to each other.
• Doing puzzles or other activities together.
• Going for walks or other activities together.

How to build trust and respect

Trust and respect are essential ingredients in any positive relationship. They’re especially important in the parent–child relationship because they strongly influence how your child will interact with others throughout their life.

Here are some ways to build trust and respect in your relationship:

• Model the behaviour you want to see in your child. If you want them to be honest, be honest with them. If you want them to be respectful, show them respect.
• Encourage and praise your child when they display qualities like honesty and respect. This will help reinforce these positive behaviours.
• Be consistent with your expectations and follow through on what you say. This will help your child to trust that you mean what you say.

The parent­–child relationship is one of the most important in a child’s life. By investing time and effort in it, you can give your child the best possible start in life.

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